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Replies: 3Last Post Jan. 18 4:59pm by gOlden OreO37
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So my girlfriend has quite a past. A year ago she came and told me that she had ate out her best friend twice. The first time sober,the second time drunk while someone filmed it(the tape is gone somewhere) O_O
She knows Im a little iffy about it because I wonder if she'll cheat on me with some other chick....
But recently I asked her again to tell me what had happened and she COMPLETELY reworked it,saying that the only thing her and her friend did was rub boobs together and dry hump.
Is she lying just to ease my mind? Because I have written proof of her sending an e-mail to her friend about her "deepest darkest secret" which was in fact eating her best friend out while he filmed it.
Any opinions?

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4:44 pm on Jan. 18, 2012 | Joined: Dec. 2011 | Days Active: 6
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Honestly, if you're going to try to analyze things like that, then you're just looking for trouble. Maybe she doesn't want to talk about what she did in such detail? Maybe she forgot or got confused? Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable with what she did so she's trying to forget it? Who knows. But what I do know is that creating problems in your own relationship is silly.

What she's done in the past is in the past. Whether she's slept with 1 girl or 100 girls doesn't change the fact that she cares about you, and it certainly doesn't effect if she's going to cheat or not.

Your best bet is to always have good communication with your partner. If something they say puts your mind in unease then it's best to talk to your partner about it, because they are the only ones who can help you with the answers that you need to really feel comfortable and secure.

But don't treat your girlfriend like she's on trial. You're not a laywer. Playing this game of "I have proof!" is silly and a bit immature. You should be an adult and discuss and communicate. Not to mention the fact that your girlfriend sent the email to her friend, and not you, but I'm not going to even ask why you are reading your girlfriend's emails...

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4:48 pm on Jan. 18, 2012 | Joined: July 2002 | Days Active: 2,453
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Chances are she has either forgotten what actually happened, or she is trying to ease your mind.

You shouldn't be worried about her cheating on you, just because she has a past with a friend.  If you are worried because of something that someone did when you were not with them, you would have the same problems with everyone.  Just because someone has had sex in the past, doens't mean they will cheat on anyone.  

Just let it go, don't worry so much or you are going to push her away.  I know that your mind is racing, but the best thing to do is wait and see how everything plays out.

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4:51 pm on Jan. 18, 2012 | Joined: July 2011 | Days Active: 136
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Damn...I have been over-analyzing alot...I just need to trust her and see what happpens! thanks for the responses though ^_^

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4:59 pm on Jan. 18, 2012 | Joined: Dec. 2011 | Days Active: 6
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